Saturday, November 5, 2011

What's Up with That?

What do guys want in a girl? The lingering question that floats above each girl like one of those miniature thunderstorm clouds in cartoons signifying a bad day. Are looks the most important thing? We all know they shouldn't be, but lets face the facts here, people. Obviously to have a relationship that withstands the tests of time you need to be with someone who you can stand to have a conversation. When it comes down to always and forever will we choose personality over looks? But doesn't there have to be some sort of physical attraction? Can you imagine kissing someone who looks like a dead water buffalo? Or the guy with his hair so slicked back with grease that you could wring it out and use the excess to coat a cookie sheet? No thank you. Looks do matter. So how do ugly people get a significant other? Do we subconsciously choose a mate (for lack of a better word) with an equivalent attractiveness? These are the things that I am wondering today. I probably sound horribly superficial, but haven't you ever wondered? The worst feeling is going through the halls and seeing couples posted up on walls and hiding in the stairwells making out with each other like no one in the world is watching. It's disgusting. And as awful as this is going to sound it's even worse when it is two beings that are unattractive. When we go to a movie we "oooh" and "aww" a gazillion times when the leads are practically groping each other so what is the difference? Have you ever noticed actors are some of the most physically beautiful people?  This is why we can stomach their PDA. We don't mind watching pretty people kiss, but it is revolting to watch anyone else. While this wasn't necessarily the direction I had planned to go for this post, I'm realizing it's something I've always thought and never said out loud. I realize that "ugly" can be insulting and if anyone is a PDA advocate they will not appreciate this blog post, but I can't take back what I have said. (Technically I could just hold down the backspace button, but I'm a lazy teenager so that seems highly unlikely). I still would love to know what are the top ten criteria for guys when it comes to girls. I would also like to know pink isn't in the rainbow? ROY G BIV (Red, Orange, Yellow, Green, Blue, Indigo, Violet... no pink!) I don't even like pink... but it still is weird. But if any boys read this... LET ME KNOW! I'm just curious. It's not like I'm going to change my whole entire look, personality, and potentially my eyes, nose, and mouth. Could you imagine if I did? It'd be kind of funny. Unfortunately this blog post is gradually getting further and further off topic so I will just end it here. Main idea: Boys should look past the initial attraction and ugly people should not kiss in public.

2 comments:

  1. I really like this post! It is so true. You are not alone in your thinking, and it doesn't sound superficial; it sounds honest. People aren't grossed out when pretty people kiss in movies, but I'm pretty sure everyone looks away when unattractive people in the hallway kiss and makes a face.

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  2. K definitely cracked up at this post. It is so true though. I always think about this same thing. Boys are SO confusing.

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